Some of the lessons I learn recently...

Its been so long since i last blog. Looking back at my last few posts, now I'll say "damn son, why am I so emo and desperate last time?"

Now Im glad Im a stronger person. Those sad things happened to me to make me stronger.
But of course, if u stay feeling down and beaten because of what happened. U won't learn at all. U might say, "Ah, I experienced those. Life is not kind. What can I do?" Yea so u experienced those but so what? U must get back up on both of ur feet and learn from ur loss. Don't ever give up. Else when the next time u meet the same problem, u will just surrender before u even try.

An once really close girl friend of mine has changed so much from the first time i knew her. True that people change but! Its ok if change for the better. She just turn worse. Haven't been in contact with her for years but according to what I heard, she's changed like more than 720 degree change! Its quite twisted. I feel sad for her but I couldn't do anything for her. Its her life and only she herself can help her.

One must stay optimistic when something bad happened to them. True, it might traumatize them or not. But hey, u survived through it and u should learn to be strong when facing the same problem next time. U will know what to do and handle the outcome of the problem. Fear is another thing. Fear is always there. Fear can be conquered. Isolate ur fears, determine what appropriate action to take. Action cures fear! Try it.

what is it...

Dying heart. Who what when why where and how?↲
Who is it?↲
What even?↲
When it happen?↲
Why is it?↲
Where?↲
How it happen?↲
I wish to know but its impossible and also it wont be fun :p

Question

If something is too good for you and it presented itself to you, will you reject it?
Is it because its too good to be true that you cant accept it? Or is it because you think you don't deserve it?
Sometimes, if something that may be too good to be true for you, try accept it. It may be real...

Faith and time

Sometimes, i really feel i lost in faith. Time is not my friend.
and I guess i never really pray enough because I never believe praying will get you the things you wanted.
Since i don't believe much in praying, i never had any faith to begin with.
From now on, Im gonna pray and have faith and let the time answer my pray....

乱！

真心真意，假心假意，是真是假，傻傻分不清楚，
真心是什么，真意又是什么，
我对于我的人生想多了解，人生有很多不一样的定义，
我想知道什么是爱，什么是情。
什么是仇，什么是恨。
单身谈恋爱是什么感觉，
情人成单身又是作么样的感觉。
人生有很多的苦吧，经历了这些苦才会得到最终的幸福吗？
我发现我被分好几次“好人卡”，我真傻，为什么没发现呢？
我情愿我当坏人，也不想再领好人卡，
毕竟是没有坏人卡的。
我不会再轻易把我的真心真意拿出来了，
从此“我喜欢你”是没有任何的意义了，只是嘴上说说而已。
除非。。。算了啦。。。

我喜欢

什么是爱？我曾经以为，我会找到一个自己很爱的人。现在回想，我是多麽的天真啊！假如从来没有开始，你怎麽知道自己会不会很爱那个人呢？我觉得，爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
每个人当然都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过；在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已。让我想一想。。。好像没有吖。如果有的话，请告诉我哦！
接下来的不是我写的。

到底该怎麽做才算是爱一个人呢？爱一个人
要了解，也要开解
要道歉，也要道谢
要认错，也要改错
要体贴，也要体谅
是接受，而不是忍受
是宽容，而不是纵容
是支持，而不是支配
是慰问，而不是质问
是倾诉，而不是控诉
是难忘，而不是遗忘
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代
是为对方默默祈求，而不是向对方诸多要求
可以浪漫，但不要浪费
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

还有一件事是我从我的朋友学的。
情人之间要懂得互相尊重。
某某人说
[一个懂得尊重别人的人，至少是一个脑袋清楚的人，这个时代讲究沟通，要做良性沟通，必得要找个脑袋清楚的人，才可能把问题解决。]

虽然我不会是世界上最好的男人，但我想要成为世界上对你最好的男人。 ^_^

只想遇到一個人 - 張宇

那些人在我心裡經過　像風來了又走
我的心滿了又空　快樂後又寂寞
那些愛在我心裡留過　短的像一場夢
我一個人滿街走　沒有地方停留
只想遇到一個人　所以我等
相信會有一雙眼神　可以讓心安安穩穩
不再像飄盪的靈魂　一輩子浮浮又沈沈
只想遇到一個人　所以我等
相信會有一種緣分　知道誰是陪我的人
在我最慌亂的時候　有顆心永遠不會冷

那些愛在我心裡留過　短的像一場夢
我一個人滿街走　沒有地方停留
只想遇到一個人　所以我等
相信會有一雙眼神　可以讓心安安穩穩
不再像飄盪的靈魂　一輩子浮浮又沈沈
只想遇到一個人　所以我等
相信會有一種緣分　知道誰是陪我的人
在我最慌亂的時候　有顆心永遠不會冷

只想遇到一個人　所以我等
相信會有一雙眼神　可以讓心安安穩穩
不再像飄盪的靈魂　一輩子浮浮又沈沈
只想遇到一個人　所以我等
相信會有一種緣分　知道誰是陪我的人
在我最慌亂的時候　有顆心永遠不會冷